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I am Mother, Daughter, Sister, Friend, and the Best Person I know. With all the pain and disappointments in my life. I try to learn the lessons from every situation; good or bad. To remember through it all I'm BLESSED and so Thankful.

Friday, June 24, 2011

Obama Doesn't have to Prove Ish

Friday, April 29, 2011

Happy Friday, Honestly I don’t care about the Royal Wedding but I must admit from some internet pictures I viewed Kate looks (in my British accent) actually quite lovely!

This whole Obama thing of consistently accusing him of not being a US citizen has gotten on my last nerve. He proved he is so now what? Now they want him to produce academic records. This is my question to all the intelligent US citizens and others when in our American history has any past President ever been asked to do either? Answer; NEVER. For those of you who like to cloth yourself in denial go ahead but common sense and fairness has to come into play at some point.

This is RACIST and I am so sick of it. This man, our President can’t get a break. If he does what I wish he would do and tell some people to jump off a fucking bridge and die then he would be accused of being “the Angry black man”. If he says nothing then he is weak and spineless with no back bone. The thing is no matter what he does or doesn’t do will always be criticized because he is black. PEOPLE LETS GET REAL it's that simple; he is black! How many times can you recall a past president making a televised speech to our nation and Republicans blatantly checking blackberry's, talking on purpose, holding up signs, or booing a President? Again I don't EVER recall that happening before. In their mind they could do that; after all this is just a black man who for some unknown and unbelievable reason made it to the highest position of power in our country.

The first big attack was he is an under cover Muslim as if Muslim equates to being the devil. As an FYI before our ancestors came over on ships to this country from Africa they were Muslims too. We became Christian because we had to take on the name and identity of the white slave masters and all of the African heritage and culture was lost and in my opinion lost forever. We are the only race of people in America that has lost our culture and identity but I won't get into that now. Then he was accused of being a socialist and of course we know the rich would die before they have to share any wealth.

The fact that he is a well educated, extremely articulate and a highly successful black man and role model doesn’t help in the eyes, hearts and minds of all the racist people in our country. You know what else I think gets under thier skin? His father is not just a black man but he is actually from Africa, OMG that's worse than the average everyday, born and raised American black man. That's twice as bad in the mind of these ignorant racist. After all these people still live in huts and and run around with bow and arrows and have zero intelligence and this man actually got a white woman pregnant and this union produced a son who became President of thier great United States of America. Many of them are still loosing sleep over that which is why they formed the most racist organization called the Tea Party. These people will stand for anybody as long as they are against Obama and is white. As I like to say "hate follows hate". People in this mindset will believe anything you tell them as long as it's against Obama. If you told them he is actually half alien from some unknown planet called Ummm they would believe it. Ignorance is grand when you truly want to hate someone.

If you think America is this big melting pot of diversity then your right but it still is filled with extreme racism but now a days people hide it more cleverly and don’t speak too much about it publicly unless your Sarah Palin who is too stupid to say anything of intelligence.

Originally posted by Ms. Angela's Stuff at 12:39 PM
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J. Ivy....Kanye West-Never Let Me Down

Friday, April 5, 2011

This is the song that made me love Kanye since his first album in 2004. This is also my favorite rap song because of J.Ivy verse. 

We are all here for a reason on a particular path
You don't need a curriculum to know that you are part of the math Cats think I'm delirious but I'm so damn serious
That's why I expose my soul to the globe, the world
I'm trynna make it better for these little boys and girls
I'M NOT JUST ANOTHER INDIVIDUAL
MY SPIRIT IS A PART OF THIS, THAT'S WHY I GET SPRITUAL

But I get my hymns from him
So it's not me, it's HE THAT'S LYRICAL

I'm not a miracle
I'm a heaven-sent instrument
My rythmatic regiment navigates melodic notes for your soul and your mental
That’s why I'm instrumental
Vibrations is what I'm into
Yeah I need my loot by rent day
But that ain't what gives me the heart of Kunte Kinte
I'm tryin to give us, us free like Cinque


I can't stop
That's why I'm hot
DETERMINATION, DEDICATION, MOTIVATION
I'm talking to you of my many inspirations
When I say I can't let you or self down
If I were on the highest cliff on the highest riff
And you slipped off the side and clenched on to your life in my grip

I would never, ever, let you down
And when these words are found
Let it be known that God's penmanship has been signed with the language called
LOVE

That’s why my breath is felt by the deaf
And why my words are heard and confined to the ears of the blind

I, too, dream in color, and in rhyme
So I guess I'm one of a kind in a full house
Cause whenever I open my heart, my soul, or my mouth
A touch of God rains out

Originally posted by Ms. Angela's Stuff at 11:24 PM
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Some Black People Seek Re-Programming Immediately, PLEASE!

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Tiger Woods, Tiger Woods I don’t understand all the news, is it really news when a man is cheating on his wife with multiple people? Doesn’t that UNFORTUNATE shit happen everyday? Well I guess because its Tiger Woods and not Joe Blow its news worthy. It’s unfortunate when a man cheats on his wife especially the way Tiger has. Tiger was getting it in for real, for real. But I will be honest and express this: (some may understand this and some may not) the thing that pissed me off with all of this was the realization that none of those women Tiger cheated with were black. Damn, Tiger you really don’t find your own race attractive apparently. We have known Tiger prefers white women since the beginning of his stardom. I am not condoning cheating but Damn, Damn, Damn Tiger couldn’t one of them women been a dark or light skinned pretty Black girl. I don’t care what you call yourself Tiger, and go ahead and embrace the Asian side of you and not the black side, but Tiger your ass is black. Everyone sees you as that, no point in trying to be something your not.

I know people have their preferences and that’s fine. I can understand black people being attracted to only black people and white people being attracted to only white people. These are the people you have become accustomed too, grew up with and can relate to the most. Not that you hate other races but you are attracted to someone who is more similar to you. That’s understandable. Believe me I find dozens upon dozens of white men extremely sexy. I LOVE me some BRAD PITT. If I didn’t have a girl crush on Angelina Jolie I would fight her ass for real, for real. I must admit I am glad he dumped Jennifer Anniston she wasn’t cute enough for my Brad. Man do I love Matthew McConaughey, Gerald Butler, Hugh Jackman, Robin Thicke, Orlando Bloom, Bradley Cooper, BILLY ZANE (wow) and many others. But I find that sexy ass IDRIS ELBA, 50 Cent, Tyrese, Shemar Moore, Denzel Washington, Lamman Rucker, LANCE GROSS and many others more attractive. There’s something about a Black man that words can not describe. You ladies and some of you men, know exactly what I’m talking about so no need to elaborate.

Honestly it irritates me when Black men or women EXCLUSIVELY date outside their race. I try not to think too harshly of those types of people but it just makes me wonder what they find so detestable about their own race? I will probably get criticized for saying this but; I don’t mind when White people exclusively date Black or other races but I detest when Black people exclusively date White people. I know that may seem hypocritical of me but I’m just being honest. I like when a White person defies their own society and makes a statement of “I think these people are just as intelligent, beautiful, sexy and desirable as our so called beautiful race. I am not falling for all the hype; kiss my ass”! What makes me even more irritated is when Black people only date light skinned Black people? That irritates the hell out of me.

I can remember being a little girl and thinking the light-skinned boys were the cutest, most handsome and more attractive. It seemed like the little Black boys thought the light-skinned girls with the long pretty hair were the prettiest as well. Then you get into middle school and the “White American Society” brainwashing that only white is beautiful fades slightly. By time you graduate from high school the brainwashing is usually erased or we’ve become re-programmed with the real truth that black in all its shades is truly beautiful. But some people never mature out of that stage. I find it so perplexing how some Black folks profess to be a lover of their own race yet they only mate or have children by light-skinned Black people or only have committed relationships with light-skinned Black people. On occasions they may show up at an event with a dark-skinned black person. It’s all a front don’t believe the hype. I equate that to a man who is still in the closet pretending to be straight. He will bring a lady to an event just to hide who he really is. Black people who prefer light-skinned black people fake like that as well. Who wants to admit such a horrible thing? You can tell what their true desires are though. As mentioned before look at whom they create children with and who they marry or have committed relationships with. To add insult to injury in most cases the Black people dating the light-skinned Black people are usually dark-skinned. You know what I think? I think these dark-skinned Black people think if they have children with another dark-skinned Black person their children won’t be beautiful. So they tend to date light-skinned people just in case they should happen to have a child. But for the most part; they are still afflicted by the "White American Society" brainwashing of White is beautiful and black aint shit.

This issue of white vs. yellow, brown or darker skin has grown global. Yes, “White American Society” media, music, entertainment, local and national news has touched other continents with this brainwashing of only white is truly beautiful. I have read articles recently about skin whitener’s commercials being advertised for men in India and Pakistan to lighten their brown skin to white. The women in these regions are not complaining about it either. They are encouraging it. A description of one of the commercials is:

“In one TV commercial, two men, one with dark skin, the other with light skin; stand on a balcony overlooking a neighborhood. The dark skin guy turns to his friend and says in Hindi, "I am unlucky because of my face." His light skin friend replies, "Not because of your face, because of the color of your face."

Suddenly the light skin guy throws his friend a cream. It's a whitening cream.
It is one of several television commercials aimed at men in Pakistan and India. In the end the darker skin actor is shown several shades lighter and he gets the girl he was after. Most of the ads end up that way”.

It’s a horrible mess that this “White American Society” brainwashing of what is considered beautiful has grown globally; its even more horrific to think that black people are perpetrating the myth against our own people. The myth of black is bad or evil is growing throughout the entire world. Black people everywhere because of the color of our yellow, brown and black skin is constantly harassed and demonized. My Black people if you must seek re-programming about your blackness please do so immediately. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL in all shades. When you seek to EXCLUDE the many shades of your own race what does that say about your love for self and your own internal beauty?

P.S. I know some maybe thinking I have a nerve, my Sister likes to say when my kids enter a room they bring in the sun. 3 out of 4 of my children are bi-racial. As mentioned I find White men attractive too, but my preference is DEFINITELY a black man. The darker the better!!! But know this I don't exclude any shade of my beautiful black men.


P.S. I know some maybe thinking I have a nerve, my Sister likes to say when my kids enter a room they bring in the sun. 3 out of 4 of my children are bi-racial. As mentioned I find White men attractive too, but my preference is DEFINITELY a black man. The darker the better!!! But know this I don't exclude any shade of my beautiful black men.


Orignially posted by Ms. Angela's Stuff at 6:28 PM

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I Love Black Women

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

I am most definitely not the jealous type. I have no problems giving a black woman her props. I love to see, hear of and observe successful black women. I love women who take pride in their appearance, walking with confidence, and displaying inner and outer beauty. Even the ones who don’t have all that going for them still get my smiles. I just love my black sisters. I give instant respect whenever one is in my presence. I come in contact with many black women in my building most of them strangers. When I run across a lady looking fly and hip I will say “girl love your outfit”. She always seems to brighten up and melt with a thank you. If a woman has a sharp hair do I will compliment her. Women love for other women to compliment them because it’s sincere. When it’s coming from a man you always think of motive. Is he trying to get some ass; or get my phone number to eventually get some ass? You appreciate the attention but in the back of your mind you wonder.


Some sisters seem to have a problem with you because you take pride in your appearance and would rather have their 10 toe nails ripped out with pliers then compliment you. Why is that? Why do some black women get threatened because you are attractive? Why feel that way. Be proud of each other. It’s not about if she is better looking, or makes more money, etc. Black women have a tendency to demean or turn up their noses at other women vs. being inspired by that woman. By nature I am shy, always friendly but shy. I don’t say much. The only people in my life who have really known for me to be very verbal are my men. I have no problem letting them know how I feel. That’s just me, like it, love it or hate it. Perfect example I stand outside every day after working waiting on the Express commuter bus. I have been catching the bus for the past year and ½. In my way out of the building or crossing the street I run into women who stand in the same general area as me and I always say a friendly hello or have a good night. I have never joined any of the groups of women. As mentioned by nature I am shy but always friendly. Well some of these women won’t even speak when I speak; yet I speak every day anyway. I choose not be ignorant just because they are. I’ve often wondered is it because I don’t kiss ass and want to be in their clique and they see me as being standoffish? I don’t think it’s that. Honestly, I think they just don’t like me because I look good. Women are often threatened or intimidated by a nice looking woman. I’m never rude; I still speak and smile. I just choose to stand off by myself and wait for the bus. If I was nasty and face always frowned up I could see them having a problem with the lady who don’t ever speak and stands over there every day. But that is definitely not the case.


In corporate America it is way worse especially if a black woman is walking with a white co-worker. Is it taboo to smile at another black woman? Some black women kill me with that; it is so unnecessary. We need to stick together. At least acknowledge each other existence. We have an incredible history that should bind us all to each other. There is no point to ever be jealous of another woman. There will always be another woman who is more attractive than you. Granted I think I am attractive but I know there has to be at least thousands, if not more other women who make me look like shit. She may make a hell of lot more money than you, you maybe in a Chevy Cavalier and she is rolling in a Mercedes Truck, etc, etc. That is all good! Be happy for her and if you would like to get where she is one day use her to motivate you. Let’s stop all the hate; it’s so unnecessary and extremely divisive.

Originally posted by Ms. Angela's Stuff at 5:41 PM


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