Some Black People Seek Re-Programming Immediately, PLEASE!

Sunday, March 14, 2010

Tiger Woods, Tiger Woods I don’t understand all the news, is it really news when a man is cheating on his wife with multiple people? Doesn’t that UNFORTUNATE shit happen everyday? Well I guess because its Tiger Woods and not Joe Blow its news worthy. It’s unfortunate when a man cheats on his wife especially the way Tiger has. Tiger was getting it in for real, for real. But I will be honest and express this: (some may understand this and some may not) the thing that pissed me off with all of this was the realization that none of those women Tiger cheated with were black. Damn, Tiger you really don’t find your own race attractive apparently. We have known Tiger prefers white women since the beginning of his stardom. I am not condoning cheating but Damn, Damn, Damn Tiger couldn’t one of them women been a dark or light skinned pretty Black girl. I don’t care what you call yourself Tiger, and go ahead and embrace the Asian side of you and not the black side, but Tiger your ass is black. Everyone sees you as that, no point in trying to be something your not.

I know people have their preferences and that’s fine. I can understand black people being attracted to only black people and white people being attracted to only white people. These are the people you have become accustomed too, grew up with and can relate to the most. Not that you hate other races but you are attracted to someone who is more similar to you. That’s understandable. Believe me I find dozens upon dozens of white men extremely sexy. I LOVE me some BRAD PITT. If I didn’t have a girl crush on Angelina Jolie I would fight her ass for real, for real. I must admit I am glad he dumped Jennifer Anniston she wasn’t cute enough for my Brad. Man do I love Matthew McConaughey, Gerald Butler, Hugh Jackman, Robin Thicke, Orlando Bloom, Bradley Cooper, BILLY ZANE (wow) and many others. But I find that sexy ass IDRIS ELBA, 50 Cent, Tyrese, Shemar Moore, Denzel Washington, Lamman Rucker, LANCE GROSS and many others more attractive. There’s something about a Black man that words can not describe. You ladies and some of you men, know exactly what I’m talking about so no need to elaborate.

Honestly it irritates me when Black men or women EXCLUSIVELY date outside their race. I try not to think too harshly of those types of people but it just makes me wonder what they find so detestable about their own race? I will probably get criticized for saying this but; I don’t mind when White people exclusively date Black or other races but I detest when Black people exclusively date White people. I know that may seem hypocritical of me but I’m just being honest. I like when a White person defies their own society and makes a statement of “I think these people are just as intelligent, beautiful, sexy and desirable as our so called beautiful race. I am not falling for all the hype; kiss my ass”! What makes me even more irritated is when Black people only date light skinned Black people? That irritates the hell out of me.

I can remember being a little girl and thinking the light-skinned boys were the cutest, most handsome and more attractive. It seemed like the little Black boys thought the light-skinned girls with the long pretty hair were the prettiest as well. Then you get into middle school and the “White American Society” brainwashing that only white is beautiful fades slightly. By time you graduate from high school the brainwashing is usually erased or we’ve become re-programmed with the real truth that black in all its shades is truly beautiful. But some people never mature out of that stage. I find it so perplexing how some Black folks profess to be a lover of their own race yet they only mate or have children by light-skinned Black people or only have committed relationships with light-skinned Black people. On occasions they may show up at an event with a dark-skinned black person. It’s all a front don’t believe the hype. I equate that to a man who is still in the closet pretending to be straight. He will bring a lady to an event just to hide who he really is. Black people who prefer light-skinned black people fake like that as well. Who wants to admit such a horrible thing? You can tell what their true desires are though. As mentioned before look at whom they create children with and who they marry or have committed relationships with. To add insult to injury in most cases the Black people dating the light-skinned Black people are usually dark-skinned. You know what I think? I think these dark-skinned Black people think if they have children with another dark-skinned Black person their children won’t be beautiful. So they tend to date light-skinned people just in case they should happen to have a child. But for the most part; they are still afflicted by the "White American Society" brainwashing of White is beautiful and black aint shit.

This issue of white vs. yellow, brown or darker skin has grown global. Yes, “White American Society” media, music, entertainment, local and national news has touched other continents with this brainwashing of only white is truly beautiful. I have read articles recently about skin whitener’s commercials being advertised for men in India and Pakistan to lighten their brown skin to white. The women in these regions are not complaining about it either. They are encouraging it. A description of one of the commercials is:

“In one TV commercial, two men, one with dark skin, the other with light skin; stand on a balcony overlooking a neighborhood. The dark skin guy turns to his friend and says in Hindi, "I am unlucky because of my face." His light skin friend replies, "Not because of your face, because of the color of your face."

Suddenly the light skin guy throws his friend a cream. It's a whitening cream.

It is one of several television commercials aimed at men in Pakistan and India. In the end the darker skin actor is shown several shades lighter and he gets the girl he was after. Most of the ads end up that way”.

http://www.cnn.com/2009/WORLD/asiapcf/09/09/india.skin/index.html

It’s a horrible mess that this “White American Society” brainwashing of what is considered beautiful has grown globally; its even more horrific to think that black people are perpetrating the myth against our own people. The myth of black is bad or evil is growing throughout the entire world. Black people everywhere because of the color of our yellow, brown and black skin is constantly harassed and demonized. My Black people if you must seek re-programming about your blackness please do so immediately. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL in all shades. When you seek to EXCLUDE the many shades of your own race what does that say about your love for self and your own internal beauty?

P.S. I know some maybe thinking I have a nerve, my Sister likes to say when my kids enter a room they bring in the sun. 3 out of 4 of my children are bi-racial. As mentioned I find White men attractive too, but my preference is DEFINITELY a black man. The darker the better!!! But know this I don't exclude any shade of my beautiful black men.

P.S. I know some maybe thinking I have a nerve, my Sister likes to say when my kids enter a room they bring in the sun. 3 out of 4 of my children are bi-racial. As mentioned I find White men attractive too, but my preference is DEFINITELY a black man. The darker the better!!! But know this I don't exclude any shade of my beautiful black men.

Orignially posted by Ms. Angela's Stuff at 6:28 PM

Angie's signing off for now...feel free to read me again! Until the Next time Stay Blessed and Humble. Peace!